Wednesday, November 5, 2008

Do you have a STD story?

Have you been effected by a STD or do you have an interesting story that is STD related? Share it with us.

11 comments:

picone said...

kimberly renee hofner,picone gave me herpes with no care in the world.she resides in houston,tx but has family in buffalo ny. she works at nasa. beware

Unknown said...

I just wonder why your name isn't on the list. I'm sure everyone reads a websites history, about, or whatever pages you use to describe who you are. You're name should still be on the same searchable list.

Unknown said...

I just wonder why your name isn't on the list. I'm sure everyone reads a websites history, about, or whatever pages you use to describe who you are. You're name should still be on the same searchable list.

STD Carriers said...

Sean,

My name is on the list as carrier # 98. When I first started this I was doing it anonymously and decided if I were to promote in public myself that I would allow myself to be on it, so I told the reporter that if anyone reported me that I would not delete it, she did not air that comment and only stated that I was not on it. I thought it would be more interesting to let the public post me than to post myself.

emotionally scarred said...

This is my story:

I dated someone for several years and prior to dating them I always tested negative for HPV/genital warts and any other STDs including HIV. During our relationship, about 5 yrs into it she was diagnosed with HPV and had visible warts. She went to OBGYN and it was confirmed. She stated that her OBGYN said it is very common that I could be the carrier and didn’t know. I went immediately for testing the following day. I was 100% negative of all STDs including HIV. I continued dating her for about 6 more months and tried not to have sexual contact with her. It eventually caused problems and we broke it off.

Since our breakup I have found out that she has had 2 sexual partners (no protection used) and did NOT inform them of her past genital warts/HPV. Since our breakup up 2 years ago, I have been having regular PAP tests (3 per year). Not only is it costing me $30.00 per visit (co-pay) I also deal with anxiety which I take Lexapro for.

This has also caused me not to be sexually involved with anyone. Even though I’m 100% negative of ALL STDs I still have emotional issues. I have lost complete trust. This has been one of the most horrific things that have happened to me in any relationship.

I want to THANK YOU for being so brave and starting this web site. There should be a STD offender web site offered in every state just like sex offenders!

PS..I’m planning on sending you a donation once I can post her name up. At the moment your page isn’t allowing access.

Emotionally scarred in New Jersey…

STD Carriers said...

The page seems to working just fine. Feel free to post

Anonymous said...

EMOTIONALLY SCARED - I too have gone through a relationship with a liar and contracted HSV from him and am devastated. What is this world coming to when you cant even trust your steady boyfriend in a loving relationship to be honest with you. I really don't know but I'm also having a hard time dealing with it among losing my job and not being able to tell my family either, so i have to deal with this awful thing alone now and its killing me! I was tested every year myself for everything and was ALWAYS clean until my ex. I know i shouldn't say this but may god strike him dead for what he did to me! This has also caused me not to be sexually involved with anyone. I also want to applaud you for starting this site and i hope you get very well known fast! ALL THOSE IDIOTS THAT SAY THIS SITE IS A STUPID JOKE HAVE NO CLUE WHAT IT IS TO WALK IN OUR SHOES.... Its no joke :(

pissedwife said...

For seven years of my life, I have been married to a man who seems to wonder sexually. A couple of months ago, I received a phone call on my job from a young lady who stated that my husband gave her herpes and he was spreading it around. I confronted him and he did not deny it. He knew about it for months but never told me. He confessed to stay he found out when one of the females he was messing with turned up pregnant and tested positive for herpes. It took another girl who was engaging in unprotective sex with him fully aware of his married status and his other sexual partners to contacted me and notifying me all because she now tested positve for herpes. But the scarey part is that, I had stop sleeping with him months ago because I felt he was cheating during this time he was trying to have sex with me fully knowing that he has herpes both type 1 and 2. I got myself tested and I have to thank god that I tested negative. The relationship end. One would think that after he found out that he has herpes that he would be more protective of the females he sleep with but that is far from the case. He still engage in unprotective sex. It is people like this that makes other leary and scared. There should be a law out there to protect people from these types of sickos. I applaued you for creating such a site. I only wish that it should be mandatory for all STD carriers to notify people and if they fail to do criminal neglegance charges should be filed.

elfenwick said...

My own husband gave me HSV...seriously, i hope he drops dead too. Obviously we are divorced now, and HSV is sometimes hard to detect unless you had symptoms. But he had an outbreak while he was away at work for 2 months and came home, didn't tell me and slept with me. Weeks later, I found Valtrex pills in a vitamin bottle. There are some real scumbags...and I am in the same boat. I really fear that finding another partner is going to be next to impossible or at least not as intimate as it possibly could be. Good luck guys...and be safe. At least we're responsible by being honest with ourselves and our partners.

JOHNNYWORM said...

Cathy Dooher 26 from Leicester England (Blonde/Blue eyes) infected me with Herpes and Genital warts. She was actually the first girl i ever slept with and assured me she was on the pill and STD free - so there was no need for a condom!! Sucker!! I got rid of the warts but Herpes is no joke and it's with me for life now, so shame on you Cathy Doo!!

Anonymous said...

Having sex is a risk itself... always expect the worst... you could get pregnant or get an STD... shit happens. So don't be surprised or hateful when it does happen. You just have to decide what is more important: sex or the chance of STD. I myself contracted HSV a few years ago. But I got on antiviral medication so I don't get outbreaks, and there is a 99% chance I will not pass on the virus to anyone else. And you know what? I have told every partner prior to sex about my HSV and medication, and not one single person has refused sex. And not one single person has contracted it from me. Herpes really isn't a big deal, the worst part of it is just the stigma... it does not affect my life at all, other than I take a pill everyday.